Your Reaction to Something Determines the Positive and Negative in Your Life
(And 4 Tips on How We Can Utilize the Power of Positivity with No Negativity)

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Your reaction, positive and negative, to something which happens to you is very important to determine what will happen afterwards, whether it will be something positive and negative for you. It will also determine your happiness, one of the most important thing your in life.

Imagine the situation where you have just lost a lot of money to the business which you invested in and put on a lot of effort and time to. The business turns out to be a bust and you unfortunately have spent a lot of money in making the business runs thus it is very bad for your financial condition. What will you do? How will you react to this situation which you find yourself in?

Positive and Negative

Life is full of positive and negative events. If you choose to dwell on it and give up on trying to put effort to your work/business, then the condition can and will be far worse for you. Quitting on it will mean that there will be no chance for you to have the success you want as success usually requires you to move forward to it with your effort. If the business is your dream to begin with, then it will surely mean that you have crushed your dream yourself by giving in to negativity.

But if you choose, rather, to have the power of positivity, have little to no negativity, be strong, take the business failure as a lesson to be learnt, and moved on to try a different business or work or even try to resolve the problem that your business faces in the moment, then it can be a far better and little to no negativity situation for you in the future as the consequence of using the power of positivity. For sure, no one can guarantee whether your next effort after the failure will be something that brings you immediate success. It can be a positive and negative story again afterwards. However, if you choose the power of positivity and are willing to try and put on the effort to move past the failure and toward success, you still have the chance for success. It is very important to have a strong determination and utilize the power of positivity to do this with no negativity.

Almost all things which happen to you can be seen as positive and negative depends on your point of view. Will the power of positivity wins for you?

The positive and negative reaction you give to this failure will also set the mood for your own happiness and those around you. Say that you choose to dwell deep into your upset, keep on wondering why your business meets its big failure. You will likely be in a bad mood in doing everything in your life in during the time and will be far likely to react negatively to everything thrown at you. Your bad mood will trigger your bad attitude and as a result, it will affect your family too and those who are close to you as they interact with you often in a day and get the most impact from your attitude to them. It will likely bring them to an equally bad mood and attitude too which of course will make you and them unhappy until the time you get over the failure and fix up your mood.

But if you choose to have no negativity and be positive to react to the failure, then everything can be more rosy and no negativity affect your mood and attitude in a much worse way and as a result, the power of positivity you give to everything and everyone around can be uplifting. You and people close to you can still be happy despites the adversity that sets in and it is a more positive situation that is created from the power of positivity rather than the negative alternative.

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It is a positive and negative one depending on your reaction. Power of positivity can bring little to no negativity to your situation.

Choose The Power of Positivity with No Negativity

Happiness is very much the state of mind of a person, positive and negative. If a person is happy, it is because he/she chooses to be happy and everything which happens to the person is reacted positively. If a person is not happy, it is because he/she chooses not to.

To have the power of positivity and have little to no negativity when something very bad happens to you, however, surely will take a lot of mental strength. You should be strong and probably can take advantage on these 4 tips which can help you to have the power of positivity and overcome the positive and negative of an event in your life.

  • Understand this positive and negative reaction and consequence concept
    Read again on this article and try to remember the concept of positive and negative reaction, its consequence when next time something positive and negative happens to you, and also try to utilize the power of positivity. When it is something bad, recall that if you have the power of positivity to it, you can still be happy, no negativity can affect you, and it is far likelier to change to something positive in the future because of the power of positivity.
  • Learn about what can you do to avoid similar things happen in the future
    Most of the thing which happen to you can be avoided if you change what you do during the positive and negative formulation of the event. Try to evaluate yourself and learn from it so you can be a no negativity and better person to prevent and handle the positive and negative outcome of it in the future.
  • Remember your dreams/goals
    When that something bad happens to you, try to remember your grand goal. Instill it in your mind that something positive and negative can happen when you chase it. If you dwell for too long, stop trying, and don’t move forward towards it, it will be almost impossible for you to reach it and it will be such a shame if that happens. You should utilize the power of positivity instead to achieve your success.
  • If you must, dwell on it for a definitive period of time
    There can be something happens which makes you need to dwell on it, e.g. Death of one of your family, fired from your job, etc. If that happens, if you need it, permit yourself to dwell on it on a set definite of time which you have imposed yourself. After that, promise yourself to get over the sadness/upset with no negativity. Moreover, try to still have a positive and no negativity attitude towards other people close to you during the definite time which you have set. Try to utilize the power of positivity to you as your bad attitude can impact them too and can bring the situation worse than before. There is actually a possibility that the situation actually impacts them far worse than you. Therefore, the power of positivity is very important in this.

In every person’s life, there will be something positive and negative happens to us. The most important thing is how we react to it and utilize the power of positivity to ensure that no negativity can affect our happiness and the positive things that we put effort on. We should always try to put on our best effort to instill the power of positivity to those unfortunate events that happen in life.

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